Some days are better than other days and then there
are days that are worse added with days that
cannot be defined. The heart
flusters , the mind contracts , shrinks and also becomes heavy while
millions of thoughts flows through the mind all at once , words fail , there is
shortage of air , the only thing that
makes sense is dying cos the pain is unbearable , the uncertainty of the
unknown is scary. Sometimes you try not to dwell on the zillions of un-controllable
thoughts causing through the mind but then you have to fight it even in the
confusing state you are. Suddenly , you remember to breathe cause your life
depends on it , you exhale to keep your sanity for that’s the only way it gets
better and it helps to stop the heart from feeling like it will just burst ;
you remind yourself that this phase will pass…one day you will look back ,
laugh so hard and then wonder why you allowed it bother you so much at that
time it almost cost your existence but all in all you will be glad that you remembered
to exhale for that was your saving grace.
Growth → Very spectacular in life. It is seen
through every stage in life, a significant cycle in every phase whether it be
physical, mental or spiritual e.t.c. Growth could be stopped consciously or un-
consciously, can be stagnant, beneficial to the individual and others around.
Growth also comes with change and it could either be positive or negative; they
also say change isn’t constant cos it occurs all the time. In some cases,
growth also comes with maturity which can either be appreciable or depreciable.
The way an Individual sees or understand a matter
differ from time to time for each one of us is subject to our own school of
thoughts.
I recently discussed some issues with a friend and I
was glad to know that her views about some certain some things had changed,
something she would have revolted about in the past. I was glad about this cos
this showed growth and changes happening at the same time. I had also recently
worn a new look different from the one I
was usually accustomed too and I got different views about it ; most times it
shows the persons way of thinking and sometimes the persons maturity and level
of growth.
We are
born, we live and then die → there goes the cycle, along the way comes life
experiences which help to build our opinion and views on how we see life which
contributes to either our growth or stagnancy. The ability to stand on our
opinions whether right or wrong , make decisions whether it’s of our own
freewill or we are been coerced into it shows our level of growth which also
leads to changes. This decisions that we make leads to the action that we carry
out in every facet of life which can affect lives yet unlived, generations
unborn, relationship with one another, work, and family and friend e.tc. They
help us to grow into maturity either in a forward or backward way, speak for us
in our absence or presence and help to tell the stories of who we really are
and what has shaped our lives.
Tell me
how many women childhood dreams come to past
Tell me
how many movies turn out real
There
are so many questions
Questions
I'll like to ask
So you
can understand exactly how I feel
Tell me
how many people wish they were someone else
Someone
they think the world wants them to be
Tell me
how many babies will be born just to die
Leaving
me with these questions
Asking
why
Tell me
how do trees whisper
How do
birds learn to sing
And how
does the rainbow stay the same
How do
bees make their honey
How do they
learn to sting
Can a
broken heart get back to heal again
How do
people get so busy they don't find time to love
What's
the truth behind why people go to war
Why is
there so much religion yet there's so little love
Will I
ever get to know the truth some day
Where's
the youth who's gonna dare - where's the elder who really cares
Why do
people believe things they know arent true
When you
look into the mirror who do you see
Why do
we have to grow to be wise
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