Everyday, they churn out vacancies, asking us to apply. We hear that jobs are available, Only apply, we are told. They tell us the jobs are based on merit and so candidates will be selected on their performance; they say. You will get the job as long as you check all the boxes, so fret not, they chorus. Well here's my reply to...




How have you been ? I trust you well. Missing and longing after you has been on the increase lately, reason been I cant stop thinking about you. I have been thinking about our supposed date night and I know it will be splendid ; however, I would love to run a few ideas by you. I read somewhere online that there a...
I cant remember anyone while growing up around me who embraced the idea of having natural hair. Natural hair was scorned and majority of those who had it on, couldn't wait to add relaxers on it. It was not like having it at that time was totally a bad idea but it wasn't entirely accepted. A lot of folks would quickly term a...
It’s very easy to get discouraged when looking for new opportunities either as a graduate or someone looking to start afresh in another professional field after several applications has been submitted to different companies. I remember applying for a job role in a multinational company and how excited I got when I received news that I had been invited to write a test...
I grew up in a house where things like breast, vagina, sex, kissing or what are views were never expected to be a subject of discussion. My parents never spoke or taught me about sex or what it entailed so I grew up with a curious mind, everything I saw I wanted to experiment with it. I learnt from peers, books and movies...
The other day on my way back from work while sitting in the bus waiting for it to get filled, I had the opportunity to watch the exchange of two young women having a brawl. One of the women accused the other lady of not giving her are complete change after she gave her the sum of N1000, lets call them lady A and...





If I had a dollar for every time I have desired to travel to a different country and place outside my nationality I bet I would be a millionaire. Traveling to me is an opportunity to view the world and its people through their own eyes, and that's why after seeing the movie, 'The sisterhood of the traveling pants' more the 8 years ago I...
A lot of times we take a whole lot of things for granted because we have come to accept them as our daily occurrences. Just like the air we breathe, we see it as nothing because we expect it to be there always. I bet if there was a day where the air we breathe vanishes or becomes obsolete then we would be...